This is creativity to the max! I’m amazed at what these folks were able to do to buildings using some pretty cool projection techniques! I want this for Christmas “lights” on my house this year… (via BitRebel).
I just finished getting the next version of my super duper series plugin for WordPress launched to the wild. Organize Series 2.1.5 has got some neat stuff in it:
- New Feature: A bundled plugin called “Organize Series Publisher”. You don’t have to activate it if you don’t want but it’s there if you want to try it out! This new add-on for Organize Series is a take-off of the Issues-Manager plugin created by Jonathan Brinley and was sponsored by Amanda Giles who hired me to port Issues-Manager so it works with Organize Series. Amanda graciously agreed to have this released to all users of Organize Series! Basically, this add-on allows you to set a series so any posts assigned to it won’t publish until you explicitly publish the whole series. Read more about it on the Organize Series Plugin Page
- New Feature: custom base for series permalinks. Yeah, now you can change ‘series’ to something like ‘myawesomesequenceofposts’…well, you can..
- New Feature: Added a new function for you power users who want to be able to fully control the output of series data. get_series_ordered() has joined the party and you can thank Amanda for it too! With this function you can get series data from the database and manipulate it however you want when it’s returned. Do the tango with it if you want! Uh…yeah…
For nearly 10 years now I’ve been gone through many different systems of organizing and keeping track of the printed material I read (that is magazine articles, photocopies, pamphlets etc.). I used to just keep the magazines I read in boxes, but then my stash got too big and it would take me forever to find something I remembered reading. However, this is the system I used for nearly 5 years.
Next, I started keeping only articles I thought were worth keeping and keeping a database/spreadsheet of the articles on my old Palm IIIe. It was a system that worked quite good for about two years. I would file the articles in a binder alphabetically and by number (using stick on tabs) and then in the database I’d include keywords and short blurbs from the articles with the article information. To find articles around a subject I just had to do a search and then I could locate the article in my “article binder”.
Some time ago I wrote a post highlighting an article I had read titled, “Five Non-Religious Arguments for Marriage over Living Together“. I found it an interesting article because it so often the whole argument for not living together tends to be focused more on a religious or moral basis and the author posted some more practical reasons as well.
This week I received an email from an individual who contacted me after reading this article with a question of their own and I asked and obtained her permission to post her question here. I’ll post my response later this week but thought I’d check out how some of my readers might respond. So where would you draw the line? What’s your response?
I am not asking you to approve of my situation but I wanted to ask you a question as a religious leader out of curiosity. I was wondering if the biblical stance on living together is primarily based on the fear of a sexual relationship out of wedlock or if living with someone and not having sex was also violating religious text?
My fiance and I have been a couple for 9 years and we are waiting to have sex until marriage. We were not planning to live together before marriage but I was abroad for a year as part of my job and had to return suddenly when the friend I was with fell seriously ill in a different country…. she almost died. When she was well enough to travel we returned home. Physically she made a complete recovery but we were both emotionally drained. I had to leave my job abroad and had no income, my fiance and I knew we were going to get married within the year, we had a date set. It didn’t make a lot of sense economically for me to have my own place and living with my parents again wasn’t an option.
Since living together we have maintained our promise to wait for sex. I am not saying our lifestyle is right. It wouldn’t work for everyone but I felt it was the best option for us. We were not putting off marrage, our long relationship is due to the fact that we got together when we were only 16 and wanted to finish school, travel some and develop the maturity to enter into marriage fully aware of the commitment we were making. As I said I am not defending my lifestyle, just trying to explain where I am coming from. So again is there any biblical passage that goes against living together before marriage without sex being the concern?
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- @mayertanuan yup I asked for invite when GoogleWave was first announced waaay back in June. I'm special. in reply to mayertanuan #
- Off to lunch at the Mandarin. Being treated b/c fo pastor's appreciation month. Nice 🙂 #
- Yeah that's what I thought when I heard…huh? #
- Playing outside with my sons – beautiful evening out! #
- At #wodconf today. Hoping for a great day! #
- RT @tonymorganlive: Gen Y spends more time on social networks than other online activities like checking email: http://bit.ly/1XSKbJ #
- RT @FlowerDust: If you don't feel like you're in over your head, you might just be a potato. // wouldn't that be tomato? #
- Just finished submitting some finished code I wrote for a client. Hope it works well for them! #
- The wrk I did is some cstm code for #organizeseries – AND the client ok'd it for passing it on to all users – I'll be pushing it out ths wk! #
- But as for you, be strong and courageous, for your work will be rewarded." http://read.ly/2Chr15.7.NLT #
In “Reflections of the Psalms” (chapter 2), C.S. Lewis writes:
Did we pretend to be ‘hurt’ in our sensitive and tender feelings (fine natures like ours are so vulnerable) when envy, ungratified vanity, or thwarted self-will was our real problem? Such tactics often succeed. The other parties give in. They give in not because they don’t know what is really wrong with us, but because they have long known it only too well, and that sleeping dog can be roused, that skeleton brought out of its cupboard, only at the cost of imperilling their whole relationship with us. It needs surgery which they know we will never face. And so we win; by cheating. But the unfairness is very deeply felt. Indeed what is commonly called ‘sensitiveness’ is the most powerful engine of domestic tyranny, sometimes a lifelong tyranny. How we should deal with it in others I am not sure, but we should be merciless to its first appearances in ourselves.
As a leader one of the biggest hurdles I experience is dealing with “sensitive” people. The kind of people that if you say something that needs to be said in the wrong way, or neglect to say or do something that they feel should be done or said they pull out their “wounded” card and go all “woe is me” on you. Having these kind of people on your team kills productivity and forward momentum. But that’s not the topic of this post. No, what about you? As a leader, are you this person? How do you know?
- Are you constantly worried about what people will think about you?
- Do you get jealous when others you know get the raise or recognition you want?
- Do you secretly gloat when a well-known leader in that big organization down the road fails in some way?
- Do you mope and pout a lot when you don’t get your way?
- Do you find it hard to take criticism? Do you always have an excuse when someone points out an area you need to improve in?
- Do you think the world is out to get you?
- Are you peeved when someone doesn’t give you the recognition you feel you deserve?
- Do you always have an idea for how a leader in authority over you could do things better (and can’t believe no one else agrees!)?
- Is there a list of wrongs done to you stored away somewhere in your memory that you pull up when someone does something you don’t like?
- Do you keep a scorecard on how you compare to others on your team or in your organization?
- Do you keep a tally of the accolades you receive from others not as a source of encouragement but as a cache of ammo to use against others who would dare to challenge your viewpoint, the way you do something, or the choices you make?
- Are you rarely wrong?
- When someone you know walks by you without greeting you or looking at you do you immediately assume they have some problem with you?
- Do you always have to have the last word?
If you answer yes then as Lewis says, be merciless to it! Root it out. Get rid of it. Stop being so dang sensitive! Otherwise you will suck the life out of what you lead.
- okay, okay I'll go to bed now – you've made your point eyelids. #
- Watching the attack play against the barrie colts courtesy of my father-in-law http://myloc.me/10vwH #
- @loswhit that's the way I'd do it. But I also check people's tweets to see if I'd want to follow them and/or block. And yes I block if nccry in reply to loswhit #
- Sitting down for an awesome #thanksgiving diiner with my wife's family! #
- My wife and her dad http://pic.gd/196adb #
- @ScottMagdalein I remember you talking about this at the churchcrunch party. Looks useful – finding good project management tools is hard. in reply to ScottMagdalein #
- Just discovered that u can tweet verses from the new #blackberry #youversion app! Fantastic! #
- RT @Jeff_Durante: New blackberry? http://bit.ly/3u3WGw // hmmm #
- @mayertanuan me me in reply to mayertanuan #
- Internet is down at work. It's amazing how dependent we've become on it. Is that a bad thing? #
- @DannoDavis dude u still have your blackberry 🙂 mywpa is accessible using usind it. in reply to DannoDavis #
- Sickness has hit my family hard. Two daughters with fevers+headaches, wife with migraine, oldest son with back pain and fever. Please pray. #
Here’s a video I had passed along to me recently. It is David Wilkerson giving a “Call to Anguish”. Most of me resonates with his words but parts of me don’t. I really agree with the truth that God works through the broken (the anguished). But is the church as broken as David makes it out to be? Yes, oh yes, I agree there is a slide to conformity among many churches and a lot of pansy, “cultural” Christians BUT I also see a rising number of churches and Christians turning to the gospel and starting to live out the call of Christ and His work through them in their city and around the world. Watch the video, tell me what you think – does the call resonate with you?
One of the cool things of my Catalyst Experience was all the “fringe” stuff that went on during the two days of the main event. Everything from a helicopter dropping parachute men, to a live band at the doors, giveaways, some llamas (did I really see llamas?), a chalk artist outside, break-dancers, kids doing some mj moves, white football mayhem, party poppers, free books, twitter on the bigscreen, lanny donoho on leno experiment, “that’ll leave a mark” video shorts, and of course…
Dr. Splash here
Oh, and how could I forget Dude Perfect. They are using their platform to do great things! These are a group of college guys who do awesome shots with a basketball – witness below: